Recent Widower
BigMike357xob
Sacramento, California | Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
I Would Describe Myself As
I was born and raised in a little town called Chicago, but graduated high school in another little town called Detroit. I am the eldest of 10. Will explain if interested in knowing. I am fun loving, good sense of humor and love to laugh, outgoing, friendly, sports fan, and astute card player of poker, pinochle, dominoes, spades, and bid whist. I achieved higher education while serving on active duty with the Air Force. I enlisted in 1968 and retired in 1991 as a Air Force Senior Human Resources Manager. The military brought me to Sacramento. I earned two AS Degrees; one in Social Services and other in Human Resources. I received a BS from Southern Illinois University as a Trainer in Workforce Education and Development. I am not a Greek Letter man, but I know what I know! I am A Mason, Eastern Star, Shriner, and 33rd Degree Scottish Rite. I am active, but not as involved as I once was. I have traveled the world 3 times. I love diversity, love to dance, 16 years as radio/mobile DJ, I liked and played some country western and mellow rock. I love jazz, some blues, r & b old school and Motown. I have old school morals and values to include chivalry. I am transparent, upfront, and respectful of differences, whatever they may be; and I expect the same from those I may get to know. I believe in God and attend church regularly. I was Baptized as a CME at age 7 by my grandfather who was a preacher in Detroit. I now attend a Baptist Church. My first marriage was at 19 and she was catholic and pregnant, 1970, No choice back then! One child and 5 years later we divorced. We were young and she didn't like military life. 2 years later I remarried and stayed married until my new wife transitioned in April this year, short of 47 years. I have my moments, but my family in Chicago and my friends here in my community and church keep me up and encouraged. I still play cards, dominoes, and every now and then I go out to Thunder Valley. I listen to music everyday and dance by myself. I am not an early riser unless I have appointments. I'm usually up until midnite every nite, watching TV or playing games on the computer.
Sign
Virgo
Appearance & Situation
My Body Type Is
Average
My Height Is
6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
African American
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Smile
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Bald
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
No
Status
My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Retired
My Speciality Is
Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is
none
I Make This Much In A Year
$60,000USD To $74,999USD
I Live
Alone
At Home
Friends Come Over Occasionally
I'm A Smoker
Yes - Socially
I Drink
Yes - Socially
Personality
Back In High School, I Was A
Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Comedic, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Religion / Spirituality, Family, Exercising, Reading, Sports, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Dancing, Travel, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Hanging Out With Friends, The Movies, Relaxing, Going To A Casino, Tv, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Transparent, fun loving, compassionate, upfront and honest. Have a good sense of humor, open to diversity and respectful to differences. African American or White. Not weigh more than 150 lbs. and not taller than me. Not red headed! Other than earrings, no piercing and no body full of tattoos. Likes sports, old school and r & b music. Old School morals and values! Faith based, believe in God!
I've Always Wanted To Try
A boat cruise!
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt
Views
My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Week
My Political Views Are
Democrat
My Goal In Life Is
Be the Best Person I can be.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Clever, Friendly
Taste
On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Dramas, Situation Comedies, Movies, Sports, Re-runs
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Action, Comedy, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Pop, Blues, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Gospel, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read
News, Health, History, Mystery, Religious, Sports
My Idea Of Fun Is
Do Whatever you want as long as its legal and not vulgar or disrespectful.
Looking for
What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
A sensitive and passionate woman gives what I give.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate