I’m a widow who was happy for 33 years

First name

Erin

I Would Describe Myself As

hi, I’m Erin & I create beautiful spaces and culture for my family 🩷 I am warm and kind. I am a marriage & family coach. i lost my beautiful man of 33 years just 4 mths ago. We had and raised 4 now adult children who are deeply intelligent communicators who love God. 🩷 (this is my claim to fame and my life’s work) 😊 I’m a worship singer/songwriter and have sung on big and small stages all over the country for my whole life. My late husband and i were pastors for most of our marriage. we lived in many different states. I have no grandkids yet but my first adult child is getting married this summer. and i can’t believe it will be without my husband. i am grieving very carefully. I’m very intentional with my emotions. my history is in helping people overcome anxiety and depression so i have applied all of my tools to this journey. i am not a basket case. 🙃 but i deeply still love and respect my late man. i adore kind and masculine men. Men who think of men as the givers and women as the receivers. men who love to protect & provide for their family. i made my husband a very happy man for 30 years and everyone came to us for advice on how to have a relationship like ours because ours was the Paragon of relationships. i adore making a man feel like he is the best man on the planet. I’m a bragger about everything good. Whether it is about you or me. I’m your biggest fan if you are a kind, gentle & generous man. i honestly don’t know if an epic enough man exists in the world. I’ve had the greatest love of anyone I’ve ever known. I’d like to believe there is another epic man in the world. but i have never met one as genius and charming as mine. 😂 i told my friends today that a man wouid have to land in front of my house in a helicopter and take me and my 4 adult kids fo Paris for dinner to get my attention. Because my family is so delightful…everyone always wants to be with us because we make everywhere better. my husband was a massive fan of my work as a mother. hahaha 🙈 my kids are unlike any others I’ve ever met. my family is extraordinary. have i said that enough times? 😇🤣 it’s true. you wouid be the luckiest man in the world to be surrounded by our beautiful, warm, thoughtful & socially intelligent family. I’m not interested in a man who cannot provide well and generously. I am not interested in men’s sports and games. i am a boujie bad ass woman who likes the spa and beautifying myself. I walk 2 hours a day. i do a luxurious skincare routine every day. i am not stressed. i am committed to a very peaceful mind and heart. i tend to my thoughts very carefully. i meditate and visualize. i always believe there are solutions and there is a way to frame up any narrative to make it serve the goal of peace and happiness. I am very capable of holding a crowd with my singing and speaking. i love it. 🩷 Each of my kids are incredibly talented musically and in the arts. I love the finer things and i don’t like crass men who tease. i am drawn to men who are intentionally effective in their relationships with their children and others. i am a conservative Christian. looking for the same. i don’t talk about politics with people unless i know for sure they agree with me. i am a peace maker. Altho I’m fiercely grounded in what i believe. i have never settled for less than my dreams in life and i plan to live this way for the rest of my life til Heaven. i love candles and slow music and calm, beautiful, high end environments. Fine dining and 5 star resorts and hotels. My dream date is a man planning everything and taking care of every detail and making it all as boujie and classy as possible. Sweep me off my feet. i dare you. And I’ll make you the best life you’ve ever had. 🩷

Sign

Cancer

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 5 (1.65 m)

My Eyes Are

Brown

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Lips

Body Art

Strategically Placed Tattoo

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

No pets

My Education Level Is

College Degree

My Current Employment Status Is

Self-employed

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

keeping myself beautifulhappypeaceful

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - Socially

Back In High School, I Was A

Teachers Pet

My Social Behavior Is

Flirtatious

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Dining, Exercising, Learning, Music, Internet, Travel

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going Shopping, Staying At Home, The Movies, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing Dress-up, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

the boujiest restaurant within a 100 miles completely planned and taken care by a masculine thoughtful man. send a driver to pick me up. ask me what id like to have in preparation for the date. ask me what i like. find out everything i want and make it happen like magic. don’t talk over me. be mindful and intelligent. woo me. ask me about my accomplishments as a mother and family guru 😂🩷 be an amazing listener. be clean and somewhat stylish. don’t do old man things like snort and be crass. be classy and wealthy. be an excellent conversationalist. Shower me with luxuries 🩷

I've Always Wanted To Try

Paris

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Someone They Want To Be

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

to live my next 30 years being loved and loving a wonderful, highly intelligent & successful family man. I have everything else from creating it for the last 30.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Goofy, Friendly

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

I'm A Recording Artist, Blues, Jazz, Gospel

When I Read, I Always Read

News, Business, Health, Home & Garden, Music, Nature, Philosophy, Political, Religious

My Idea Of Fun Is

spa/massage/walking long on all my favorite beaches in CALI and FLA/ fine dining/ first class flying/high end hotels and resorts / botanical gardens and any water. i could stay in the pool and hot tub all day long. And i do. 😂 gathering family and friends for delicious food and singing and creating beautiful environments for everyone to enjoy. being the solution to someone’s problem. 🩷

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Power, Money, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Good Looks, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

a man who knows that the woman who gets him will be the luckiest woman in the world

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed