I'm a tremendous & fierce life survivor.

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I am a serious, yet fun-loving person. I like to laugh at your antics and at myself when it happens that I do something so dumb it's funny. I like to walk & talk, hold hands & share PDA, public & private. I like almost all music 60's to 80's but no RAP or heavy metal. I like cooking & going out to eat in most restaurants. I like car trips, short & longer trips, going places or going nowhere. I like dancing, in clubs or at home. I like sharing the shower. I like to be courted & I like to be romanced as well as romancing him. And, just so you know, I am a survivor because I have successfully fought off 6 different kinds of cancer, 1 metastic & 5 of them potentially life threatening. I believe in kicking butt & taking names when it comes to serious illness. My Oncologist says that's probably why I'm alive & well right now when he would not have expected me to be alive now. Just about anyone else would have died by now. I refuse to go out without a fight & I want all the fun, laughs & praises to God available beforehand. I plan to live 20-25 more years at the minimum and my doctor says he believes I will. I believe in the healing power of prayer & God's grace. I want my man to share that belief. I am a veteran of 9 years in the US Air Force and the Texas Air National Guard. I separated in 1991 after my 2nd of 6 cancer diagnoses. I have beat all 6 and 2 of them deadly to over 95% of the people diagnosed and owe it to the power of healing prayer & excellent doctors. The last one was Stage 4 (the worst) & over 95% die between 6 months and 2 years if under Stage 2. Stage 4 patients usually don't live beyond 6 months. It's been over 2 years and my last CT shows no sign of regrowth where God & chemotherapy took out the tumors surgery couldn't reach. Every doctor I have now wonders how I survived it. So, on to other things. I am not in the dating site for any 1-night stands. If that is your hope, please stop now & move on because when I go to the marriage bed of the next man on my life, I will be an unopened gift to him of a chaste wife between my late husband and the man I'll spend the remaining 20-25 years with. I am a 1-man woman and I want the same commitment from him to me. I have a wide variety of interests and hobbies. This profile will cover a lot of them, the rest remain discovery areas as we get to know one another.

Sign

Aries

My Body Type Is

A Few Extra Pounds

My Height Is

5' 1 (1.55 m)

My Eyes Are

Hazel

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian, European, Native American

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Sometimes At Home

I Want Kids

No

My Best Feature Is

Eyes

Body Art

Scarred, Wouldn't Even Think About It

My Hair Is

Dark Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Part-time

My Speciality Is

Administrative / Management

My Job Title Is

Senior Admin Asst

I Make This Much In A Year

$15,000USD To $29,999USD

I Live

With Kid(s)

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

No

Back In High School, I Was A

Quiet One

My Social Behavior Is

Reserved, Shy, Observant, Friendly

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Religion / Spirituality, Family, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Dancing, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Playing Cards, Camping, Volunteering

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Hanging Out With Friends, Trying New Things, The Movies, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Tv, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Meeting for a coffee, tea or ice cream and chatting while getting to know one another to determine if we are compatible.

I've Always Wanted To Try

Skiing and sky diving.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool, A Flirt

My Religion Is

Seventh-Day Adventist

I Attend Services

Once A Month

My Political Views Are

Middle Of The Road

My Goal In Life Is

Meet a man who will be my emotional support and Christian guide through the rest of my life. I want to share love and joy everywhere I can & I want a partner to be there with me to guide, advise and share it with me. With my illness, I have not gone to church as much as I'd like to & I need a partner to encourage me to get there more often.

My Kind Of Humor Is

Friendly, Goofy

On Tv, I Always Watch

News, Dramas, Movies, Reality Shows, Re-runs

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Action, Drama, Thriller

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Country, Rock, Pop, Jazz, Dance, Soul, Gospel, Folk

When I Read, I Always Read

Biography, Fiction, History, Mystery, Reference, Poetry, Religious

My Idea Of Fun Is

Meeting friends, card games (4 or more players), yard sales, auctions, flea market shopping, hosting Christmas holiday parties (especially for homeless vets), going out to dinner, movies or meeting friends.

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Spontaneity, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

What Do You Look For?

Honesty is foremost. A man must be his word. A handshake is as good as a contract. If he lies to me, how can I trust him with my life. He must also be non-violent in the home. I will not tolerate abuse. Disagreements are one thing, hurting is entirely another & wrong. Humor and Faith are high in importance to me. Let's have fun, but let's stay close to God also. Cleanliness is also important to me. Monogamy and being free from STDs is a top priority. HIV/AIDs is a no-go for me. I can deal with cancer, but don't bring me something I can't wash off. I love fiercely and passionately, don't make me regret it by bringing me a disease that could be avoided, especially with honesty.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed