I’m a Leo , but the profile says Libra

First name

Tom

I Can Speak

English

I Would Describe Myself As

I’M A WIDOWER AFTER A WONDERFUL 44 YEARS LOVE AFFAIR ! GOD TOOK HER HOME! BUT SHE LEFT ME A WONDERFUL FAMILY, A SON AND DAUGHTER , BOTH HAPPILY MARRIED AND 4 PRECIOUS GRANDKIDS. I WANT TO FIND A LADY WHO , BY HER OWN SIMILAR EXPERIENCE, UNDERSTANDS JUST WHAT IT’S LIKE TO HAVE BEEN LOVED SO DEEPLY; BUT DOESN’T WANT TO BE ALONE ANYMORE! NOT RICH, BUT COMFORTABLE. IF YOU LIKE THE SIMPLE THINGS IN LIFE, THAT’S A GREAT START! DON’T YOU THINK? THINGS LIKE….. DAY TRIPS TO NOWHERE OR THE MOUNTAINS, LONG WEEKENDS IN A CABIN, SATURDAY MORNING YARD SALES, ROAD TRIPS ( SHORT OR LONG), SITTING AROUND MY FIRE PIT ROASTING MARSHMALLOWS & SIPPING COFFEE OR SOMETHING, WATCHING TCM OLD MOVIE IN THE EVENINGS . I’M A FAIRLY DECENT COOK, IF YOU LIKE SOUTHERN COMFORT FOODS AND DESSERTS. COOKING TOGETHER CAN BE ROMANTIC AND FUN. I’M A GENTLEMAN! THEREFORE YES, I OPEN DOORS, PULL YOU UP TO THE DOOR, ETC. I WOULD LOVE TO TAKE A ROMANTIC CRUISE ( IF AFFORDABLE). I LIKE TO PAMPER MY LADY, YOU KNOW…. HAVE BREAKFAST READY ON SATURDAY MORNING AS YOU SLEEP IN , BRING YOU FLOWERS FOR NO PARTICULAR REASON, ETC. BUT , DON’T BE MISTAKEN, I WANT THESE THINGS IN RETURN ! I DON’T WANT TO BE THE ONLY ONE GIVING OF THEMSELVES. I LIKE BEING PAMPERED TOO! I’M OF VERY HUMBLE MEANS, IE. I CAN’T LAVISH YOU WITH EXPENSIVE JEWELRY AND OVERSEAS TRIPS AND THE LIKE, BUT I DO SHOW YOU HOW MUCH I CARE( OR AT SOME POINT, LOVE) YOU. I’M AN OLD FASHIONED, OLD SCHOOL, BLUE COLLAR SEMI RETIRED GUY.“ NOW“ FOR THE POSSIBLE DEALBREAKER FOR A LOT OF YOU…… YES, I’M A SMOKER ! NOW, THAT SAID… I’M AS COURTEOUS AS A SMOKER CAN BE. MEANING…. I DON’T EVER SMOKE IN THE HOUSE OR IN ANY VEHICLES. I ( WHEN POSSIBLE) WILL FRESHEN UP AFTERWARDS IE. BRUSH MY TEETH, WASH MY HANDS AND HANDS, OR IF NECESSARILY EVEN CHANGE CLOTHES. BUT, I THINK I’M WORTH IT !  OH, I LIKE CLASSIC ROCK, CROONERS, BIG BAND SWING AND A TOUCH OF OLDER COUNTRY. I NOT MUCH OF A DANCER, BUT I WILL TAKE YOU OUT ON THE FLOOR ON ALL THE SLOW DANCE SONGS. I LIKE SLOW DANCING IN THE KITCHEN AND DEN .
NO PHOTOS, NO NEED TO CONTACT

Sign

Libra

My Body Type Is

Average

My Height Is

5' 9 (1.75 m)

My Eyes Are

Gray

My Ethnicity Is

Caucasian

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

My Hair Is

Salt And Pepper

I Have One Or More Of These

Dog

Willing To Relocate

No

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Full-time

My Speciality Is

Municipal / Law Enforcement

My Job Title Is

Retired salesman/ now Full Time Security

I Live

Alone

At Home

All Is Calm

I'm A Smoker

Yes - Socially

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Shy

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Movies, Theater, Cooking, Cars, Camping, Playing Cards

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

The Movies, Relaxing, Tv, Going To A Concert

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Quiet dinner to talk about ourselves

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly

My Religion Is

Christian

I Attend Services

Once A Week

My Political Views Are

Very Conservative

My Goal In Life Is

Enjoy my family and live in CALM

My Kind Of Humor Is

Clever, Campy, Friendly, Dry / Sarcastic

On Tv, I Always Watch

Documentaries, Movies, Sports

When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A

Drama, Thriller, Science Fiction, Comedy

When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To

Rock, Classical

When I Read, I Always Read

I Don't Like Reading

My Idea Of Fun Is

A day trip to the mountains, small towns, car rallies etc

What Do You Find Attractive?

Wit, Humor, Thoughtfullness

What Do You Look For?

Someone who understands that we as widows / widower , not only want to continue our lives but we still cherish the ones we have lost too !

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Committed