Have you seen me? Anywhere?

I Would Describe Myself As

Charming and delightful and sexy and humble and lovable. Never, ever forget humble and lovable. OK, in all seriousness, I am creative and outgoing, a good writer, an excellent storyteller, a complete extrovert, in every way.

My wife died, here at home, this past January. We were married for 32 years, 7 months and 20 days. I felt lost. Empty. Desolate.

My best friend recently told me that I needed to move forward. If he had said "move on", I might have maimed him. (not really... well, maybe... ok, I only probably would have maimed him) I don't think I will ever "get over" or "move on" from her death. Move forward, though? Yes. I can move forward. I am ready for that, to move forward.

Right now, I'm not certain I could carry on a conversation with a woman, let alone a relationship. Yet, I know my friend is probably correct: I should begin to move forward with my life. I hope to find someone who can be, not a replacement for the loss, but an addition to my life. A kind woman who will bring new ideas, new stories, as well as new hopes and new plans for me to absorb, consider and take part in.

Could that woman be you? (think about that for a few moments... I can wait...) Let me know what you decide.

Sign

Scorpio

My Body Type Is

Muscular

My Height Is

6' 0 (1.83 m)

My Eyes Are

Blue

My Ethnicity Is

Other

My Marital Situation Is

Widowed

I Have Kids

Yes - Not At Home

I Want Kids

Not Sure

My Best Feature Is

Smile

Body Art

Visible Tattoo

My Hair Is

Light Brown

I Have One Or More Of These

Cat, Dog

Willing To Relocate

Yes

My Education Level Is

Some College

My Current Employment Status Is

Retired

My Speciality Is

Art / Music / Literature

My Job Title Is

CEO, Editor, Writer, Copy Boy, Janitor

I Live

With Roomate(s)

At Home

Friends Come Over Occasionally

I'm A Smoker

No

I Drink

Yes - One Or Two

Back In High School, I Was A

Class Clown

My Social Behavior Is

Comedic, Friendly, Observant, Outgoing, Strange, Party Starter

My Interest And Hobbies Are

Cooking, Games, Movies, Music, Reading, Sports, Theater

My Idea Of A Great Time Is

Going To A Concert, Playing Video Games, Reading A Book, Relaxing, Staying At Home, The Movies

An Ideal First Date Would Be

Starting quietly with a brunch or light lunch, then taking a drive (gold country, wine country), having dinner then going (a) to a movie, (b) dancing, or (c) to a party... maybe (d) all of the above. If it goes well, we'll have you back in time to watch the sunrise, sitting outside on your porch, remembering everything we did and saw.

I've Always Wanted To Try

I think I have pretty much tried it all, but I'm sure we could put our heads together and think of something new that I haven't tried yet.

My Friends Describe Me As Being

Friendly, Someone They Want To Be, Cool

My Political Views Are

Conservative

My Kind Of Humor Is

Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Friendly, Goofy, Slapstick

What Do You Find Attractive?

Boldness, Empathy, Humor, Intelligence, Spontaneity, Thoughtfullness, Wit

What Do You Look For?

I am looking for a woman who is smart, adventurous, intellectual, passionate, witty, sensuous and brainy. (did I mention that it would be a big plus if she was intelligent?) Inversion boots a big plus.

What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed