Don't act my age and don't want to.

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Bob

Ik beschrijf mezelf als:

Finding the correct mate is the most important action you do in life. It is a journey that can take you onto happiness or tragedy. I am a widower after 44 years of marriage. We had good and bad times. The marriage contact was clear, and I take it seriously “till death do us part” death we parted.

My approach in this journey is two pronged. Find my correct mate and-or help women find theirs. Due diligence is so important to find a life partner, most overlook it. My 44 years of marriage was work but is not work I regretted. There is nothing more enjoyable than helping others. Read below it is the approach I’m using; it will help you.

I have experimented with other dating apps. This one by far is the best because there are less relationship scams here. They care for your safety and will delete the fakes they know are there. Check out the safety page to find out what a relationship scam is. They attempt this scam on both men and women, many have been hurt. They also have many videos for help in your journey.

Google “love and respect principle” by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs. If your divorced please don’t just assume you know what went wrong in your marriage. Have an open mind and you will find out what exactly what went wrong in your marriage and how to avoid it in the future. I have shared this with marriage counselors, divorced men-women, psychology professors, students in counseling and most are blown away by the truth.

Google “The five love languages” by Gary Chapman. This best-selling book will teach you what a love language is. All women have a primary and secondary language. They are words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time and physical touch. You will know what your love language is and communicating it to your prospective partner will make his relationship you so much easier for him. I know because I’m not a mind reader. Or he may think he is not compatible with you. It’s a good thing to find out now than later. They only thing I would change in it would be when it refers to love language for men. It should be respect language for men. You should see why after understanding “love and respect principle” Most men have the “respect language” of #1 Words of affirmation #2 Physical Touch

The above is biblical, but you don’t have to be a Christian. The “love and respect principle” is not a new concept, quite ancient. I believe over the decades people forgot it. “The five love languages” is newer and came out of many years of research.

If you are a church goer, I would need to know your spiritual gift. It would say so much about you. It’s not a weird holy roller thing like speaking in tongues. You have “one” of 7. Gift of Prophesy (not predicting the future), Gift of Serving Others, Gift of Teaching, Gift of Encouraging, Gift of Mercy, Gift of Generosity and Gift of Leadership. Most don’t know what their spiritual gift is. I would enjoy more than anything to help you to know, no strings attached.

I believe in transparency. Not a holy roller bible thumper. I do have a high sex drive but will not let that take over like many and make wrong choices. There are many great women here on this app. I believe there should also be many men too. Let us both find the right one!

Sterrenbeeld

Steenbok

Mijn Lichaamstype Is

Gemiddeld

Mijn Lengte Is

6' 1 (1.85 m)

Mijn Ogen Zijn

Blauw

Mijn Ethniciteit Is

Blank

Mijn Burgerlijke Staat Is

Weduwe

Ik Heb Kinderen

Ja - Niet Bij Mij Thuis

Ik Wil Kinderen

Nee

Mijn Beste Eigenschap Is

Ogen

Body Art

Ik zou er niet eens aan denken

Mijn Haar Is

Grijs

Ik heb één of meer van deze

Kat, Vogel

Ben je bereid te verhuizen?

Nee

Mijn Opleidingsniveau Is

MBO

Mijn Huidige Werkstatus Is

Zelfstandig

Mijn specialisatie is

Kunst / Muziek / Literatuur

Ik Woon

Alleen

Bij mij thuis

Is het lekker rustig

Ik Ben Een Roker

Nee

Ik Drink

Nee

Op de middelbare school was ik

Gewoon

In sociale situaties ben ik

Gereserveerd, Verlegen, Opmerkzaam, Vriendelijk, Grappig, Flirterig, Gezellig

Mijn Interesses En Hobbies Zijn

Religie / Spiritualiteit, Gezin, Eten, Fitness, Lezen, Nieuwe Dingen Leren, Films, Internet, Theater, Koken, Tuinieren, Vissen / Jagen, Kaarten spelen, Kamperen, Vrijwilligerswerk, Computers

Mijn idee van een leuke tijd is

Thuis blijven, Ik probeer graag nieuwe dingen, Films, Tv, Naar een concert gaan, Naar een museum gaan

Een perfecte eerste date is

Any venue where my date will feel safe and secure

Wat ik altijd al eens heb willen proberen:

Anything new

Mijn vrienden beschrijven me als

Vriendelijk, Cool, Gek, Een Flirt

Mijn Geloof Is

Christelijk

Ik Ga Naar Diensten

Een keer per week

Mijn Doel In Het Leven Is

Live the rest of my live to the fullest. Helping others instead of doing everything for myself.

Mijn Gevoel Voor Humor Is

Vriendelijk, Gek, Slapstick

Op tv kijk ik:

Documentaires, Komedies, Educatief, Films, Reality

In de bioscoop kijk ik:

Actie, Science Fiction, Documentair, Thriller

Als ik naar muziek luister, luister ik altijd naar

Country, Rap, Rock, Metal, Electonische Muziek , Blues, Jazz, Industrial, Latin, New Age, Ambient, Dance, Soul, Reggae, Folk, Punk

Ik lees graag

Nieuws, Mythologie, Autobiografie, Biografie, Business, Computers, Geschiedenis, Huis & Tuin, Filosofie, Politiek, Natuurwetenschap, Romantiek

Mijn Idee Van Plezier is

Volunteering help at the homeless shelter. Helping others rather than myself

Wat vind je aantrekkelijk?

Gevatheid, Flirterig, Spontaniteit, Eigenaardigheden, Moed, Gevoeligheid, Empathie, Humor, Goed Uiterlijk, Bedachtzaamheid, Intelligentie

Wat zoek je?

Have and open mind and the ability to change or modify opinions based on information.

Waar ben je naar op zoek?

Vriend, Date, Intimiteit, Vastigheid