Loss can enable compassion for others.
Pat78
Woodstown, New Jersey | Жена тражим мушкарца
Основни подаци
Име
Pat
Говорим
Енглески, Шпански
Мој опис
I am a sincere, compassionate, well-educated person. I am a sensitive person and would like to avoid being hurt by deception. I have traditional values and like being respected as a lady. I am a practicing Catholic and my faith is important to me. My faith in God and the good people in my life have enabled me to manage the sorrow of my husband’s death. I have had the blessing of kindness extended so often. I see the hand of God at those times.
My husband died of a brain tumor 4.5 years ago. He was always healthy until that point in time and the illness was incurable. I have spent a good bit of time processing my grief. Since Mike’s death, I do virtual support work for the brain tumor community. I often say that with grief, “The deeper the love, the more profound the grief.” I was married for almost 40 years to a wonderful husband. We had no children and had a loving and happy life, often doing a great deal for family. Our life was a very decent and good life, so I have no skeletons in the closet to hide.
Prior to retirement, I was a school counselor and in my early career, a Spanish teacher. I have a Master’s and Bachelor of Science degree. My career was important to me. In retirement, I use my time for volunteer work: on Board of local food pantry, ministry in my parish, help at a soup kitchen, support for brain tumor community, etc. My work related to brain tumor community has been a way to help others suffering the terrible disease which caused my husband to die. Often when we help others, we can transform something painful by giving to others.
I have a home which I love. My yard/gardens are my joy when the weather is nice. I enjoy time outdoors a great deal. Other interests are walking, yoga, exercising, spending time with friends. The topic of travel arises. I like going away a few times/year, but I am not one who needs to be going somewhere all the time. I can be content in my local surroundings.
As for politics, which seem to be a large issues currently, I am an Independent. I am aware of issues, but do not like constant talk of politics nor do I like someone trying to push their opinions on me. My views are conservative rather than liberal.
I was raised in Greenville, DE and moved to NJ when we married in 1978. I am the oldest of five sisters who live in various places now. Along life’s way we spent lots of time with family and our nieces and nephews were important to us.
As I move along in this journey, I say that my life is in God’s hands and pray for guidance.
My husband died of a brain tumor 4.5 years ago. He was always healthy until that point in time and the illness was incurable. I have spent a good bit of time processing my grief. Since Mike’s death, I do virtual support work for the brain tumor community. I often say that with grief, “The deeper the love, the more profound the grief.” I was married for almost 40 years to a wonderful husband. We had no children and had a loving and happy life, often doing a great deal for family. Our life was a very decent and good life, so I have no skeletons in the closet to hide.
Prior to retirement, I was a school counselor and in my early career, a Spanish teacher. I have a Master’s and Bachelor of Science degree. My career was important to me. In retirement, I use my time for volunteer work: on Board of local food pantry, ministry in my parish, help at a soup kitchen, support for brain tumor community, etc. My work related to brain tumor community has been a way to help others suffering the terrible disease which caused my husband to die. Often when we help others, we can transform something painful by giving to others.
I have a home which I love. My yard/gardens are my joy when the weather is nice. I enjoy time outdoors a great deal. Other interests are walking, yoga, exercising, spending time with friends. The topic of travel arises. I like going away a few times/year, but I am not one who needs to be going somewhere all the time. I can be content in my local surroundings.
As for politics, which seem to be a large issues currently, I am an Independent. I am aware of issues, but do not like constant talk of politics nor do I like someone trying to push their opinions on me. My views are conservative rather than liberal.
I was raised in Greenville, DE and moved to NJ when we married in 1978. I am the oldest of five sisters who live in various places now. Along life’s way we spent lots of time with family and our nieces and nephews were important to us.
As I move along in this journey, I say that my life is in God’s hands and pray for guidance.
Хороскопски знак
Девица
Изглед и стање
Моје грађа
Просечна
Висина
160 цм
Боја очију
Плавa
Раса
Белац/Белкиња
Брачно стање
Удовац/Удовица
Имам децу
Не
Желим децу
Не
Телесна обележја
Не пада ми на памет
Боја косе
Смеђa
Имам
Немам кућне љубимце
Спреман/Спремна за селидбу
Не
Статус
Образовни ниво
Докторат
Мој радни однос
У пензији сам
Моја струка
Образовање
Назив мог радног места
Retired
Живим
Сам(а)
Код куће
Увек је мирно
Пушим
Не
Пијем
Не
Личност
У средњој школи био/била сам
Тих(а)
У друштву сам
Уздржан/уздржана, Дружељубив/дружељубива
Моја интересовања и хобији
Религија/Духовност, Породица, Вечере, Вежбање/Тренирање, Учење, Баштованство, Волонтирање
Како замишљам провод
Дружење с пријатељима, Шопинг, Волим да останем код куће, Блеја, Концерт, Посета музеју
Мој савршен први састанак
Meeting casually for coffee, lunch or dinner.
Одувек сам желео/желела да
To earn a doctoral degree.
Моји пријатељи кажу да сам
Дружељубив/дружељубива, Моји пријатељи желе бити ја
Погледи/Животни ставови
Религија
Католик
Идем у цркву
Једном недељно
Мој животни циљ
To live a well-balanced life of good health, peace, happiness and being of service to others.
Мој смисао за хумор
Дружељубив/дружељубива
Укус
На ТВ-у увек гледам
Вести, Наставне програме, Спортове
У биоскопу увек гледам
Комедије
Увек слушам
Рок
Увек читам
Здравствене, Кућа и башта, Наставне програме, Филозофске, Религија
Како замишљам добру забаву
Working in my garden, spending time with friends/family, helping with a charitable project, a drive to beach or place of interest for the day, spending time in nature.
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Новац, Осећајност, Саосећајност, Вештине, Изглед, Брижљивост, Интелигенција
Шта тражите?
I am a sensitive person and I look for sincerity, thoughtfulness, a person of faith,
a person who is able to understand at meaningful levels. To be respected as a lady is essential to me. Of course, there must be an attraction, but physical beauty without good character is not acceptable.
a person who is able to understand at meaningful levels. To be respected as a lady is essential to me. Of course, there must be an attraction, but physical beauty without good character is not acceptable.
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Пријатељ, Састанак