Lonliness should not be an option


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johnpavidis

Allentown, Pennsylvania | Man Seeking A Woman

Basic Information

I Can Speak
English
I Would Describe Myself As
Sign: Pisces
Height: 6'4"
Gender: Man
Interested In: Women
Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
Body Type: Stout
Relationship History: Widowed
Children: Has children, not at home
Education: Attended college
Religion: Christian
Smoking: Doesn't smoke
Industry: Sales/Marketing on line
Income: Fluid, changes with Market

My story, as stories go, could almost be written by Charles Dickens. Great Expectations with a little Christmas Carol thrown in. Perhaps even a little Herman Melville, white whale and all.
My Wife of 24 years just passed away, and while her loss lies heavy on my heart, She knew only too well that I would need someone in my life to share the remaining chapters of my story that she could not.
Here is the ironic thing about all of this. I met her from an ad that I ran in the local paper, the Morning Call, in and of itself a long shot for most people at best, and here I am now, full cycle, doing it again, 24 years later. I can hear her laughing now.
I know that I don't look it, but I am something of a romantic, but at the same time, a little pragmatic as well.
I think that it is inherently difficult for two souls, at first strangers, yet strangely united in their search for someone to share life with, to find each other in this way. However I am living proof that it can happen, the question being in my case, can it happen again. Only the Lord knows.
Sign
Pisces

Appearance & Situation

My Body Type Is
Heavyset
My Height Is
6' 4 (1.93 m)
My Eyes Are
Brown
My Ethnicity Is
Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is
Widowed
I Have Kids
Yes - Not At Home
I Want Kids
No
My Best Feature Is
Hands
Body Art
Wouldn't Even Think About It
My Hair Is
Silver
I Have One Or More Of These
No pets
Willing To Relocate
Yes

Status

My Education Level Is
Some College
My Current Employment Status Is
Self-employed
My Speciality Is
Sales / Marketing
My Job Title Is
Owner, CEO
I Make This Much In A Year
$15,000USD To $29,999USD
I Live
Alone, With Kid(s)
At Home
All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker
No
I Drink
No

Personality

Back In High School, I Was A
Class Clown
My Social Behavior Is
Observant, Friendly, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are
Reading, Sports, Music, Internet, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards
My Idea Of A Great Time Is
Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Reading A Book
An Ideal First Date Would Be
Is there such a thing as an ideal first date? After all, here would be two people, both searching for something, understandably nervous, perhaps even a little intimidated, but never sure of themselves. Awkward moments would be almost guaranteed. But, as the wise man once said (whomever he was, maybe it was a woman), nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I've Always Wanted To Try
To write the Great American Novel, a work of Fiction that would entertain anyone who would read it.
Moving to Alaska, (really!) as the pristine wilderness of the Alaskan back country has a strange magnetism for me.
Leave this world with the knowledge that I lived well, did no harm, and left a legacy that would perhaps trigger fond memories to someone in the future.
My Friends Describe Me As Being
Friendly, Cool, Goofy, A Flirt

Views

My Religion Is
Christian
I Attend Services
Once A Year
My Political Views Are
Middle Of The Road
My Goal In Life Is
To finish in style. Not necessarily with tangible possessions, but more spiritually, in tune with what may lie ahead, as I believe that what you do and who you are in this life, will play a big part in what you will be in the next.
My Kind Of Humor Is
Campy, Clever, Dry / Sarcastic, Obscure

Taste

On Tv, I Always Watch
News, Instructional, Sports, Reality Shows
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A
Science Fiction, Drama, Documentary
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To
Country, Rock, Pop, Classical, Blues, Soul, Folk
When I Read, I Always Read
Fantasy, Fiction, Health, History, Instructional, Nature, Science Fiction
My Idea Of Fun Is
Almost anything that is legal, won't kill me, and I could do with my significant other.
Seriously, I am adventurous at heart, but do have issues with heights.

Looking for

What Do You Find Attractive?
Wit, Spontaneity, Sensitivity, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For?
You know, this question falls into the category of "I'll know her when I see her".
Simply put, we never can tell when that person will show up in our lives. She did once for me, and I just lost her as she lost her battle against a horrible illness. Before she passed, she made it clear that looking back would not benefit either of us, no matter who passed first. She told me she would move on because she would not want to be alone, well, here I am, moving on.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking?
Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed